Here are real-world dating experiences and tips from tens of thousands of actual web users. Collected from every major social network and submitted articles, this repository holds the secrets of dating in the modern age. This is how internet dating REALLY works!
Most people that sign up for online dating cancel it within a few weeks because of the technology disconnect. Be informed and win at online dating by reading this huge compendium of actual user experiences. Every online dater is either looking for: marriage, sex, free food, money, social revenge, distraction, entertainment, narcissistic validation, arm-candy, friends, a baby-daddy or related goals. See how others reach these targets, for good or evil, by reading these documentations.
-- Before your first blind meeting, exchange text numbers on your burner phones or you will likely not find each other if you have never seen each other in 3D before.
-- Famous dating site owners, like IAC, match.com, okcupid, zoosk,
farmers only, plenty of fish, etc., use your private information ILLICITLY
by rigging the system exclusively for themselves and their crony insiders
to gather information on you. Stay informed about corporate dating site
face harvesting, privacy abuse, reading of users messages, selling users
to political parties and other misdeeds. Your face on a dating site can
lead to the hacking of your bank account in 10 minutes if an experienced
hacker is using face comparison AI software across social networks.
Protect yourself by reading http://lifebooks.net/Web_Safety_Part_One.html
-- A "Date" means that both parties are agreeing to meet based on the belief that both parties believe there is a chance of sex occurring. A "Hook-Up" means that both parties are agreeing to meet just for sex.
-- Over 50 groups scan every photo on a dating site to look for political exploitation opportunities. Do not think that your dating profiles are exempt from scanning by political party operatives. Many of the big dating sites sell your data to the DNC and/or RNC.
-- Russian, Nigerian and Chinese "Fake Profile Farms" have placed millions of fake profiles on all of the dating sites. Some dating sites are MOSTLY fake profiles. When you write to them, expert texting scammers, or AI bots, respond to you in an extremely convincing manner. Never believe someone is real from a dating site until you have met them in person in front of a local coffee shop.
-- Never communicate more than a few generic sentences (to arrange to meet) over an internal messaging system on a dating site. Everything you type on a dating site message system is often read by bored staff at the dating site, harvested by government analysts, scanned by marketing companies for phone numbers and email addresses, read by hackers and archived for years for future legal and political analysis. Intention analysis of your words is sold to political parties and other third parties. Get your communication OFF of the dating site ASAP. Never say too much about yourself or place very much private data on a dating site. The messaging system inside a dating App is one of the most dangerous threats to your privacy.
-- If you have been on many dating sites you have had a huge number of first date/meetups but they ended in failure since you are not in a relationship with those people. You may have dated people longer but those relationships did not work out either or you would not be on a dating site. The thinking that "getting to know someone" has any value in dating has already been proven wrong by your own past experiences. 'Waiting in dating leads to undating'. Most marriages end in divorce and that proves that you can never "get to know someone". All people dating are always looking for an imperfection so they can rationalize the: "Delete"..."Next"..." option to switch to the next person. The so-called "perfect" match can never be found. The Grass-Is-Always-Greener-On-The-Other-Side-Of-The-Fence never ends in online dating. You CAN get a rapid paced pseudo-feeling of "social action" by going through many people but that is shallow. The only thing that works is to take the next person, that is not too ugly, and partner with them and craft a relationship TOGETHER.
-- People on dating sites with photos that look like they are fashion models or with pictures that have advertising type poses and make-up could be sociopath narcissists. If they look like they should have people lined up to date them, they probably do. There are a certain number of angry divorcee-type people, who hate the other gender because of a bad divorce and want to punish all those from that other gender by being mean to them online. Watch out for internet hotties who just have a "LOOK AT ME" insecurity complex and have no intention of ever meeting anybody.
-- Everyone on an internet dating site is presumed to be open to having sex, otherwise they would be on Facebook or Meet-Up if they were just looking for a social herd interaction sorority type hang out. Don't be offended if sex comes up earlier in the conversation that you expect. That is the nature of the internet. You both need to text each other that you BOTH agree to "a monogamous, committed relationship", in writing, or you need to expect the other person to be sleeping with the other members on the dating site on the nights that they are not with you.
dating, make sure your doctor has tested you for: 1.) HIV (https://www.mylabbox.com/how-much-does-an-hiv-test-cost/);
2.) Hepatitis C; 3.) Herpes Simplex II; 4.) Syphilis (https://www.mylabbox.com/test-for-syphilis/); 5.)
6.) Gonorrhea (https://www.mylabbox.com/clap-gonorrhea-symptoms-in-women/);
7.) Trichomoniasis; 8.) HPV; 9.) Mycoplasma; 10.) Ureaplasma; 11.)
COVID; 12.) Anal sores. Consider getting a prescription for the AIDS
prevention drug: "Prep" and using topical microbicide jelly to kill STD's.
-- Facial symmetry and social similarity herd programming are the two
biggest factors you are up against in on-line dating. Try to get past
these biological subliminal conditioning factors and date outside
your "comfort zone". Don't date people that look exactly like your social
cliques faces. Try not to date people that all look like they go to the
same frat house or sorority.
dating has put men in the position of being used for free dinners while each woman has many other men
buying them dinners the same week. Internet dating has made men
hyper-sensitive about being "used". The first few dates from an internet
connection must be "dutch" these days, to avoid conflict.
-- Men who date via internet sites will eventually always get sex, so they expect it more than usual because the internet changes the numbers game.
-- Billionaires from Google, Facebook, Netflix and Linkedin are hard to date because most of them have a number of sex workers (hookers and rent-boys) they retain weekly plus they have an account with every dating site and a "social connections" manager. The nights that they are not with you, they are with a person from another dating site and they get bored of each person after a couple of weeks and dump them in their constant search for new distractions. If you can get pregnant by one of them, though, you can get a phenomenal payday.
-- People who have many photos but only photos of their face are usually fat. Beware.
fast on new members that just joined a dating site because people quit, or
get scooped up, as soon as they appear as "new meat" on a dating
site for the first time, most internet daters move fast in order to avoid
missing out. If you don't get to date a new member within a week or so,
they will have been taken by someone else or they will have found out how
tough dating sites are and quit. You have about 11 days to make your case
to a new member or they will be gone. If you are a guy, you are competing
against thousands of other guys all trying to sound richer, more fun, more
together, more employed, sexier and more interesting than you. The early
bird gets the worm and it is truly a numbers game online. This is the
harsh but true reality of it...even more so in a post-Pandemic world.
PART ONE: http://lifebooks.net/ONLINE_HUMAN_INTERACTION_Part_One.html
PART TWO: http://lifebooks.net/ONLINE_HUMAN_INTERACTION_Part_Two.html
PART THREE: http://lifebooks.net/ONLINE_HUMAN_INTERACTION_Part_Three.html
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PART ONE: http://lifebooks.net/Web_Safety_Part_One.html
PART TWO: http://lifebooks.net/Web_Safety_Part_Two.html
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